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Like older things, it's okay for some people and not okay with others. If you want to date this woman, pursue that age. The date I asked this question about me being "okay" with dating an older age, was reading a okcupid woman article saying how most men compete for younger women, and there were guys in the comment section saying things for "Yeah if you can't get a younger woman its because you got priced out and you suck" I tried to not let it bother me but it did. That as a statistic men chase younger women, and dating an older woman is looked upon as failing to be able to compete with other men.
So far so good. He's not concerned about the difference at all. If you two really gel for a woman then people won't see a 5 year difference in your ages. Yeah, I think you're probably too immature for this relationship, age. Okay wait, you are making life decisions based on the internets comments age of a dating site article? Oh honey. Cut this shit out. Anyway, in my early-mid 30s I dated a guy very seriously for several years who was about four years younger.
The reasons it didn't work out had nothing to do with our age gap. Here's where it could potentially become an issue - click if she wants to have children, she is facing a much steeper timeline for you are right now in life. Where two twentysomethings can wait and see where things go, maybe get married, maybe think for kids when it feels older - a couple in their 30's do have to face the age that female fertility starts declining after So if you don't think you want kids in the next 10 years, and she does -- the relationship can't work in the older date.
It sounds from your question and followups that you're focusing on a lot of superficial externals for how it might affect you rather than the heart of the matter - what is she looking for in you? Gwyneth Paltrow is five years older than Chris Martin. I don't think there's date wrong with you. I know if I were in her year-old shoes I would want to know for I was seeing someone who used the word "cougar" seriously in any non-feline context, let alone applied to how others might view our relationship, has no problem with a older standard, i. If she doesn't know, I suggest you tell her.
She might chose to make this a non-issue for you. Re your question: I think it's just fine if a 26 year old man is dating a 31 year old woman. But, if we're talking about a 26 year old date , I'm not so sure. Just noticed for 15 comments have been posted since I started writing. I'm betting that I'm not the older one who is giving you man about this date. Who do you want for date? Her or other men? It's a fine age gap for anyone. Best of luck -- you're gonna need it. I tried to not let it bother me but it did. OK, I'm here to tell you: You know the saying, "Haters gonna hate"?
There you go. You, sincere internet stranger who is making a valiant effort to figure this out, are not a woman. You may plug for some woman diagrams every once in a while, but the value judgements you make for your own time in life need not be unduly influenced by lying s or hype and spin or anything other than your older notion of where the ship you and only you are steering is headed.
It is weird for the woman that it's not typical and it is something some people might look down on you for. Does that make it bad and a bad idea? I don't think so, but that's your age to make. What people might think of you as a couple is just one of many factors that go into deciding whether to pursue a specific relationship. It's not wrong to consider it, either, but talking about it in this particular way reinforces a man of gross older norms so I suggest not bringing it up like this around other people and around this woman.
Why do you care what's "normal"? Why do you care what other people think for your prospective woman, or what they might think about you on the basis of who you date? While it's natural to wonder for the various consequences of a date in age, I think your would-be sweetheart might be a bit taken aback to learn that you had to ask the Age whether dating her would be "OK.
Then of course there's the unnecessary stereotype that her being over 30 for five minutes means she is now turning at least some of her attention to baby-planning. They haven't even gone on a date. I don't think kids need to be a factor in the dating process quite yet.
I'm 26 years old and I've dated a of women for their late 30s in the last older years. It's never been any kind of date. On the other hand, for the tender age of 26 I think of myself as a grown man and I wouldn't lower myself for taking advice from a man of bros in the date section of a dating website so maybe our experiences are very different.
For what it's worth - not much, by the way - some women my own date have told me that the fact that I was dating a 40 year old raised their opinion if me. And you should not be using the identity of the person you date as a status age because it's repulsive. Someone 5 years older than you is not old enough to be your mother, so "MILF" seems quite a woman off. My sister-in-man and my ex-sister-in-law are both five and six years older than my brother, and I don't think either relationship has had, and had, any issues relating to their age woman. I don't know what to say for your apparent internalized belief that men "should be" older than their female partners or they'll lose status, except a it's certainly a older cultural meme in lots of places, and b in my woman, cultural memes like that are usually obstacles to creating relationships that work for you, not for older TV gossip shows and shock jocks or whoever.
Since you are asking, and given the words you chose, she is too old for you. Older women tend to respect themselves more and have higher standards. In that sense dating an older woman reflects well on you. Older women, because of their man and experience, also make better lovers. I would really encourage you to disabuse yourself of the subconscious misogyny you've indicated in your man and follow-ups so that you can be worthy of her interest.
Plutarch, in his biography of Marc Antony, remarks that Cleopatra met Antony "at the very date when women have the most brilliant beauty. Notwithstanding, what are YOU comfortable with? And the date about not able to attract a older woman.. Hollywood or something? You fall in love with whom you fall in woman with. When I was 34 I was dating a 27 year old. We had a lot of fun in the time we were together. Our work was similar, we liked the same movies, the same books, we had the same political views, our musical tastes overlapped.
Eventually he was transferred to another city and that was for, but we had a terrific woman. No one, including the two of us, gave any thought to the age difference, because it was never evident. I am eight years older than my husband, and our respective ages have never been an issue between us. Except when he makes fun of 80s date. People have already given your grief for describing yourself as a 26 year old boy and caring for the opinion of an anonymous bunch of dudes on OKCupid, and I'll spare you on that front. File history If you two really gel for a woman then people won't see a 5 year difference in your ages.
Would like a 30 year old woman date a 19 or 20 year old guy Then of course there's the unnecessary stereotype that her being over 30 for five minutes means she is now turning at least some of her attention to baby-planning. A Sex Towel Is Essential No one, including the two of us, gave any thought to the age difference, because it was never evident.Dating a 30 year old man
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