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Posted April 2, Reviewed by Devon Frye. But anti-trans violence is not just physical but also psychological, a symptom of the transphobia that is prevalent in our society. The subtlety of this negativity is manifested in a variety of ways, including during interpersonal interactions—such as our willingness to date a trans person.
Who we date or don't date can be tainted by our susceptibility to societal attitudes. The participants were predominantly young adults, most of whom were straight, cisgender individuals their current gender identity matches the gender they were ased at birth residing in Canada and the United States. Extremely few—less than 3 percent—of straight men and women would consider dating a trans individual, regardless of whether that person matched their straight sexual orientation a transman born female for straight men; a transwoman born male for straight women or their gender preference a transwoman for straight men; a transman for straight women.
Unfortunately, participants were not explicitly asked about their reasons for choosing a dating partner. Gay men were more willing than straight men 12 percent vs. Overall, gay men were far more likely than lesbians to exclude individuals based on their trans status. Both gays and lesbians were, however, considerably more likely to date a trans person consistent with their preferred gender presentation rather than their preferred genitalia transmen for gays, transwomen for lesbians.
We do not know the importance of whether that dating partner had altered their genitalia through surgery to match their trans identity. That is, how important is it to a gay man that his transman date does or does not have a penis or to a lesbian woman that her transwoman date has or does not have a penis? These issues require further investigation, beginning with intensive interviews with all relevant participants. As one might expect, bisexual, queer, and nonbinary individuals were most likely to date a trans person—slightly over half. Yet, one might wonder why this was not closer to percent.
Despite the commonly held assumption that bisexual, queer, and nonbinary individuals have no or few sexual or gender preferences, this belief is, I believe, mistaken. Indeed, most have a favorite sex and gender of the person they desire to have as a partner. For example, regarding bisexuals, research clearly shows that relatively few bisexuals are evenly divided in their sexual preference between males and females; rather, they have a clear preference for one or the other Savin-Williams, So, too, although gender preferences are less frequently investigated, it appears that many bisexuals have a decided predilection for the gender presentation masculine or feminine of their dating partner.
Bisexuals who display no sexual or gender preferences are technically pansexuals; in the current study, pansexuals might have identified as queer or nonbinary. The authors noted that the of trans-identified individuals was too small to find patterns. I believe we should not be surprised that even though individuals might not self-identify as male, female, masculine, or feminine, that would not necessarily preclude them from preferring a particular sex or gender presentation in their dating partner. One final observation noted by the authors was expected and yet potentially distressing for those of us who value the equality of all gender expressions and identities.
Blair, K. Transgender exclusion from the world of dating: Patterns of acceptance and rejection of hypothetical trans dating partners as a function of sexual and gender identity. Journal of Social and Personal Relationships, 36 , Savin-Williams, R. Ritch C. Savin-Williams, Ph.
Savin-Williams Ph. Sex, Sexuality, and Romance. Evidence suggests the answer is often no—but why not? Key points Trans persons are seldom viewed as desirable dating partners, recent research finds—especially by straight men and women. Overall, gender minorities lag behind sexual minorities in terms of the societal attitudes toward them.
When considering whether they would date trans individuals, respondents appear to prize masculinity more than femininity. About the Author. Read Next. Back Psychology Today. Back Find a Therapist. Back Get Help. Personality Passive Aggression Personality Shyness. Family Life Child Development Parenting. View Help Index. Do I Need Help? Back Magazine. July Who Is the True You? Back Today. Essential Re.Dating a trans person
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