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How do we know something is important to us? People have lived, fought and died for trivialities. We have started wars. Killed millions. Destroyed families. Ruined relationships. Ruined futures. Even ruined our own lives, consuming pointless information, worrying about things of little to absolutely no importance, only to live a whole lifetime sifting through, categorizing and dissecting garbage.
Yet there is hope. Maybe not for the masses. Maybe not on a larger scale, but as long as each of us finds a few things in our lives -- things that, in reality, do hold importance -- we have a chance at creating a fulfilled life. Giving things or people importance is as crucial as it is necessary for passion to manifest; without finding something or someone to hold ificant importance or meaning to you as an individual, passion will be an impossibility.
We can only be passionate about that which we deem important. When it comes to relationships, one needs to be careful. When we fall in love, we immediately feel the apple of our eye is incredibly important to us. We feel this intense need to keep them a part of our lives, to spend time with them, to care for them, to give them our time and attention. This need almost always fades, however, because we either come to realize this individual actually is less important to us than we first thought or we fail to realize why this individual is important to us outside of the way this person makes us feel.
Although, when it comes to love and romantic relationships, there really is no such thing as objectivity. The relationship will fail because, as the emotions begin to fluctuate as they always do , your level of recognized importance will likewise fluctuate in his or her eyes.
The moment your partner begins to question how you make him or her feel, the love you share will begin to crack. If your entire relationship is built upon the idea that either one or both of you deem the other to hold importance solely because of the emotional responses solicited by the other, then, eventually, your relationship will fall apart. So what is the utility of feeling or believing something holds importance, knowing a particular individual means the world to you?
The tremendous need of holding on to this individual, keeping him or her as a part of your life you willingly give into. It creates this need in us to let this person know, to show him or her how important he or she is to us -- a need that may not always be intense but is always floating there just below the surface.
If you want to find the right person to spend your life with, then find someone who recognizes you as being important enough to fight for. Someone who may not necessarily understand you the way you feel you need to be understood just yet, but someone who is willing to put in the time and effort to get to understand you on such a level. When it comes to people, they either recognize you as being unimportant, important for entirely selfish reasons or important for partially selfish reasons. Those are the only three options, and the last is the only one that will allow for a successful, loving relationship.
By Paul Hudson. It forces us to act. It forces us to change. It forces us to adapt, get innovative. It moves us. You need to find a partner who finds you to be the most important thing in his or her world. Search Close.I just need a person
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